I was watching an episode from Sex and the City (Season 2 episode 2) and it was about what you can "live with" in a relationship. For me it depends. For me, I have are expectations.
- Do you do what you say you're going to do?
- Are you affectionate?
- Are a good listener?
I'm single and don't have too much experience in relationships, but from what I see, everyone settles. Everyone, says, "I can live with this or that, but not this. I can relate to that, but how much are you willing to stand for. That whole "love can conquer all" idea is bullshit. That's for the Hallmark cards and Valentine's Day are for. What conquers all is open communication and a willingness to be vulnerable in front of each other.
In that episode, Carrie's friend was in a abusive relationship and willing to stay her husband. This is the episode when Charolette gets the dog (Henry) who shits all over hear apartment. Char eventually gave him to a family, but realized that she and her dog weren't the right fit. That's where I stand. I'll try (almost) anything once, but if it doesn't fit there's no need to sit in a bunch of crap.
Psychology Today is a great site with some interesting articles about relationships! Check it out.